Human being’s life is so
challenging at every step after the other. Smooth life is a dream for us.
Today, we are going to discuss on one amazing topic “how to deal with the
Selfish People” an ultimate problem for all of us. Well, it is not wrong to say that everyone
has a selfish nature to a certain extent. Instead, there are people who cross
the extent limit of selfishness.
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| Deal With The Selfish People |
Ok! Let’s talk about you. Tell me
what you will do, if someone popping on that delicious leftover you kept in the
fridge to eat later and they finish it off while you were out? Ah Hah! Don’t
think too much, you aren’t the one who would secretly want to scold them for
their crime.
Well, it was just a normal
example. Selfish people love the idea of all for one - the thing is that the
one is them. If you met someone kind of this or may have a friend or partner
who’s selfish, so here are some ways you can deal with them.
1.
Recognize
The Demon
The first thing for you is to
spot the monster around you. They may be your friend, spouse, parent or any
other person in your life. And, you might be giving an unselfish love, care,
and respect for them. These people are
the one who expects too much from you, but gives less in return. Keeping a faith relationship with these kinds
of people will never benefit you. Instead, you may suffer pain and
disappointment.
2.
Understand
That Selfish Person Don’t Have Regards For Others
They are like a frog in the well.
Selfish people can only think to the limit that belongs to them. So, the first
priority for you is to understand that these people will never change and have
no regards for others. It is prescript to consider your need first. Hope this knowledge help you in knowing where
to stand.
3.
Don’t
Hesitate To Take Favor
On an account, you found your
monster personality friend, start the operation to kill their ego. You have to face them and need to introduce
their self-centered personality. As they come to ask you from favor, do but
first let them do something for you. And, if they start emotional blackmailing
you. Yes! This is what you want, a chance to say all you feel for them honestly.
4.
Show
The World Doesn’t Belong To Them
A self-centered person is one who
always wants someone to hear them, but they don’t even try to listen to another
person. If they do so, remind them that the world is not around them. Try to be
in the battle of expressing. Be the active speaker between. Don’t let them
heavy on you.
5.
Be
Loyal To Yourself
People who always think about
themselves will always try to attract you to hear them anyhow. Maybe they
overtake your talks, cut you in between, not interested in listening to you
etc. Well, being like them is not the solution. Just be like what you are.
Having focused on self will surely mean a lot to deal with this problem. Tell
yourself that how loving person you know you are for being so kind to the
self-centered person who is actually brutish and unkind to you.
6.
Starving
Them For The Attention They Are Wanting
Hahn! This is the powerful weapon
is to deal with seriously selfish people, who as usual forget to regard
others. The plan is like that, be civil
but never offer attention. You may limit your words on non-committal with them.
Say like- if a person is describing the problem related to them, at that moment
instead of giving sympathy, try to be universal. This will puzzle and throw
them off balance.
7.
Have A
Conversation On The Topics You Interested In
Try to make conversations on the
topics that you are interested in, instead of being absorbed with the topic
started by a self-observed person. Better to suggest random topics on what
interest you, which unrelated the selfish person topic. By the time, they will
understand that you are not very interested in their self-stories.
8.
Lessen
The Time You Spent Together
If the person is too selfish and
self-centered and hardly listens to you, then it’s better to be away from them.
Limit your time being spent together. Suppose you go for a walk, take tea or
coffee together daily then space your dates.
Alternate reply to their text and stop calling them, because, it’s
better to spend a day with you, rather be in with the self-observed person.
9.
Pass On
“Not Interested Card”
Ignore the person who always
thinks of himself and no regards to others. Just do once and see the result. If
the person still cares, love and respect you, then they will wonder” what the
matter is”. Otherwise, selfish people have their boundaries that hold the fake
faith sense of importance.
If all the above doesn’t work, then comes the best –
10.
Quit The
Relationship
The last and the least is to give
up the relationship because there is no expectation with those selfish ones.
You can take the professional help and if still, they replay the same better to
say quit. Self-centered people will never change their attitude, we better move
on with some loyal friends. Who actually cares, love, respect and give you
importance as same.
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